Hi huys.
I'm really really really sorry I haven't posted in a while, but I'm here now, so might as well talk right now than never, right?
BTW, I'm listening to Taylor Swifts song' Safe and Sound' It's nice, but I really love We are never ever ever getting back together, and the video is hilarious!!!! I especially LOVE that raccoon guy who's, for some reason, always sticking his tongue out.
So, anyways, rambling on and on, back to the topic, dealing with bullies. I'm sure about 99% of you are bullied, why? Bcuz I am too. But not the serious, bloodshed type, but the mean girl type, and this is how to deal with 'em.
Ofcourse, as you all must know, everyone always says that just ignore them etc etc. But, in truth, that never worked for me, that, infact, gave them even more liberty to walk all over me, which, trust me, is not fun!
So, how did I deal with them? No, How DO I deal with them. Well, first of all, I DO NOT forgive them,. I mean, if they haven't apolagized, then why should we? Right? And secondly, I don't just get mad, I get even ( actually, I'm working on this step to over throw the mean girls!). For example, if they inult me, I quickly find a fault in them and insult THEM! I mean, getting even isn't a crime, is it? NO ! So it's perfectly fine if you insult them in return. So, the next advice is more leaning towards the nerds (so called, one day, every one will have to work under them). You know how SOMETIMES you end up getting lesser marks than the bullies(that's because they very obviously CHEATED)Then, when you ask them how much they got, they act like they're all show off and you know what, so what I do is that I act all show off (a little less than them) when I get better marks than them.Also, don't be afraid to turn them in when you've caught them cheating. I saw them cheating on a maths test, actually alot of kids saw them, and, after they left, we all went to the teacher and told him, also to keep an eye on them and not to tell, and guess what? He didn't. Plus, like, 99% of my class hates the CCP's or otherwise known as meangirls, so we are all planning on throwing them off of their throne. How? By standing up against them together, that's how. Plus, the CCP's did a tiny little party a few days ago at scool, and didn't share anything with any of us. So, we decided to have our own party, and not give them anything. We had one today, and it was sooooo nice, even one of them was all "Guys, look how they are having their party, we should have ours like that" And they ere sooo jealous, and to make us jealous, they started talking about how they're gonna have they're next party. But, in the end, they asked for a little cake from us, which felt sooo good!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Well, guys, that was my advice, and remember one thing, the bullies are not important people in your life, they're not your loved ones, they're not your friends, then why let them get to you? They're probably this mean 'cuz they feel jealous or making you sad makes 'em happy. Well, whatever the reason, treat them like they treat you, an tell on them if you have the guts. Seriously, just don't let those people get to you! Join up with a few classmates who also hate them, and then try to make?found an anti-bullying group/club, and hand out lyers against bullying. The bullies are people who have phsychological problems: making others sad is their happiness, doesn't that seem a bit idiotic to you too? I mean, seeing others HAPPY makes me feel happy, and I'm no crazy!
And, all you bullies out there, what satisfaction o you get after bullying? Cuz, the rest of the world would really like to know, you know, so we can have that same satisfaction? You pathetic bullies should really look inside your heart and ask yourself, why am I doing this? Haven't you ever tried to imagine how the victim of your constant baby tantrums must feel, well, if you haven't then you really should, and try putting yourself in someone else's shoes, and forget your problems for a minute and look how much problems YOU YOURSELF are creating, and after this, if you still find bullying amusing, then you are hopeless. Try being nice for a month or two, and then look in the mirror, you will find beauty inside of yourself, and it'll show.
And anyone who has been bullied before or is going through bullying, always remember, you are not alone and stay strong, you shouldn't care a damn about these bullies, cuz they are NOT the main focus of your life, bcuz, if you make them that, then how will you find space in your mind and life for important things like friends family and facebook(LOL) ? Right? So stand up for what you believe in and the next time you walk infront of a bully, smile and glide with your head held high, take pride in yourself and your personality because you ARE beautiful and always will be, may God bless you, and nput the bullies on the right track.
HOPE YOU FOUND THIS HELPFUL!
XOXO,
Rosy <3 font="font" nbsp="nbsp">
stay strong
I'm really really really sorry I haven't posted in a while, but I'm here now, so might as well talk right now than never, right?
BTW, I'm listening to Taylor Swifts song' Safe and Sound' It's nice, but I really love We are never ever ever getting back together, and the video is hilarious!!!! I especially LOVE that raccoon guy who's, for some reason, always sticking his tongue out.
So, anyways, rambling on and on, back to the topic, dealing with bullies. I'm sure about 99% of you are bullied, why? Bcuz I am too. But not the serious, bloodshed type, but the mean girl type, and this is how to deal with 'em.
Ofcourse, as you all must know, everyone always says that just ignore them etc etc. But, in truth, that never worked for me, that, infact, gave them even more liberty to walk all over me, which, trust me, is not fun!
So, how did I deal with them? No, How DO I deal with them. Well, first of all, I DO NOT forgive them,. I mean, if they haven't apolagized, then why should we? Right? And secondly, I don't just get mad, I get even ( actually, I'm working on this step to over throw the mean girls!). For example, if they inult me, I quickly find a fault in them and insult THEM! I mean, getting even isn't a crime, is it? NO ! So it's perfectly fine if you insult them in return. So, the next advice is more leaning towards the nerds (so called, one day, every one will have to work under them). You know how SOMETIMES you end up getting lesser marks than the bullies(that's because they very obviously CHEATED)Then, when you ask them how much they got, they act like they're all show off and you know what, so what I do is that I act all show off (a little less than them) when I get better marks than them.Also, don't be afraid to turn them in when you've caught them cheating. I saw them cheating on a maths test, actually alot of kids saw them, and, after they left, we all went to the teacher and told him, also to keep an eye on them and not to tell, and guess what? He didn't. Plus, like, 99% of my class hates the CCP's or otherwise known as meangirls, so we are all planning on throwing them off of their throne. How? By standing up against them together, that's how. Plus, the CCP's did a tiny little party a few days ago at scool, and didn't share anything with any of us. So, we decided to have our own party, and not give them anything. We had one today, and it was sooooo nice, even one of them was all "Guys, look how they are having their party, we should have ours like that" And they ere sooo jealous, and to make us jealous, they started talking about how they're gonna have they're next party. But, in the end, they asked for a little cake from us, which felt sooo good!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Well, guys, that was my advice, and remember one thing, the bullies are not important people in your life, they're not your loved ones, they're not your friends, then why let them get to you? They're probably this mean 'cuz they feel jealous or making you sad makes 'em happy. Well, whatever the reason, treat them like they treat you, an tell on them if you have the guts. Seriously, just don't let those people get to you! Join up with a few classmates who also hate them, and then try to make?found an anti-bullying group/club, and hand out lyers against bullying. The bullies are people who have phsychological problems: making others sad is their happiness, doesn't that seem a bit idiotic to you too? I mean, seeing others HAPPY makes me feel happy, and I'm no crazy!
And, all you bullies out there, what satisfaction o you get after bullying? Cuz, the rest of the world would really like to know, you know, so we can have that same satisfaction? You pathetic bullies should really look inside your heart and ask yourself, why am I doing this? Haven't you ever tried to imagine how the victim of your constant baby tantrums must feel, well, if you haven't then you really should, and try putting yourself in someone else's shoes, and forget your problems for a minute and look how much problems YOU YOURSELF are creating, and after this, if you still find bullying amusing, then you are hopeless. Try being nice for a month or two, and then look in the mirror, you will find beauty inside of yourself, and it'll show.
And anyone who has been bullied before or is going through bullying, always remember, you are not alone and stay strong, you shouldn't care a damn about these bullies, cuz they are NOT the main focus of your life, bcuz, if you make them that, then how will you find space in your mind and life for important things like friends family and facebook(LOL) ? Right? So stand up for what you believe in and the next time you walk infront of a bully, smile and glide with your head held high, take pride in yourself and your personality because you ARE beautiful and always will be, may God bless you, and nput the bullies on the right track.
HOPE YOU FOUND THIS HELPFUL!
XOXO,
Rosy <3 font="font" nbsp="nbsp">
stay strong
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